Carolyn Jean Marszalek Despotakis passed away peacefully, on August 17, 2025, in Baldwin with her nieces Janine Montgomery and Christine Szymarek by her side. Born in Wilmerding on July 1, 1942. Beloved daughter of the late Stanley and Regina (Kasprzyk) Marszalek. Loving Wife of Richard “Deppy” Despotakis, married on July 23, 1966. Mother of Mark Despotakis of White Oak, PA, grand cat Fleury, sisters Frances O’Donnell of Norristown, PA, Marianne Popyak of Westerville, OH; and Dorothy (Raymond) Szymarek of White Oak, PA.
Carolyn attended Robert Morris College for business, worked at the Greater Pittsburgh Drive In, was bookkeeper for Palmetto Home Builders and John Parker Construction, in addition to many years as a secretary at the Pribanic and Pribanic law office. Along with her husband, she owned The Lionheart Inn in McKeesport, PA from 1969-2000. She was a member of Mary Mother of God Parish.
She was affectionately called “Sweet Caroline” and was the aunt to many nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews. Carolyn will be missed by her many friends and cousins. She is preceded in death by her sister, Jane Ebbitt; in laws, Betty and Mike Despotakis; nephews and brothers in law.
Arrangements
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Hair Peace Charities of which Carolyn benefited during her bout with breast cancer many years ago. The family wishes to thank the staff for their care this past year at Jefferson Hospital, AHN Hospice, and Celebration Villa of South Hills.
Per her request there will be no visitation. A private prayer service will be held at Good Shepherd Cemetery, Monroeville.
Be kind and pay it forward as Carolyn would so generously do for others over the years.
James F. Kutch Funeral Homes & Crematory
433 Lincoln Highway
East McKeesport, PA, 15035
412-823-4054
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Deepest sympathies. Carolyn was a very beautiful person. Always friendly and a pleasure to be around.
My deepest sympathy to Carolyn’s family. Losing a beloved family member brings sadness but also joy in knowing they are now out of pain and in God’s kingdom.
A beautiful, intelligent woman that I always enjoy being withl.We grew up in a very closely knit, extended family and shared so many beautiful memories, which will never be forgotten ..Each time I was in the presence of Carolyn it was joyful, ..even though she suffered many times… it was never evident.. I will miss her dearly, but she will always remain in my heart with these beautiful memories. I wish you, Mark and Dad , comfort knowing she’isvin a better place. With heartfelt sympathy and love, ❤️🙏🏻. Cousin Loretta Daczkowski.
Our deepest sympathies for your loss.
My deepest sympathies to your family Mark. Your mother was a wonderful person. I remember her fondly.
Sending our most heartfelt sympathies to the entire family. Sweet Caroline will be missed
It is with sadness to see our Caroline leave us She has suffered so much in the last years I know how many people loved her and loved being around her she was very compassionate to every one and always gave a hand to help all who needed it Her husband Deppy knows how well she was loved by her family and friends Her son Mark always did his upmost to help her in every way I am sure the angels in heaven are welcoming her
Hey Dep, Mark-
So sorry to hear about this. She was a great wife and mom. I have many fond memories. My deepest condolences. Dave.
Offering my deepest sympathy on your loss. Carolyn was a wonderful person and a joy to know
Without a doubt a most wonderful lady is in heaven right now she was a beacon of light and hope always being a caring loving in every thing she did for others
Mark,
Your mom was a kind and funny lady and will be missed. Many years ago her surprise was a handful of confetti in Christmas cards! I thought it was such a a unique idea, until I tried to gather it from the floor, from me and everywhere I walked! I called & we had a great belly laugh. I hope sharing stories of your mom brings you joy and comfort..
She was such a welcoming, joyful person. We always loved to see her at a family gathering. Love.
Carolyn was always such a welcoming joyful person. We enjoyed seeing her at family gatherings. Love.
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